Ten Insights for 2024
- Environmental Effect
- Long-Term Thinking
- Respecting Common Sense
- Emotional Intelligence as Leverage
- Understanding Yourself
- Compounding Actions
- Role-Based Integrity
- Effective Exercise
- Learning to Collaborate
- Lifelong Growth
1. Environmental Effect
People are products of their environment.
If you want to break through socioeconomic barriers, the most effective first step is to change your environment.
For example, surrounding yourself with exceptional people is changing your environment—and you’ll quickly notice shifts in the information you receive and the way you think.
How do you make that shift? By strengthening yourself enough to enter more capable circles.
There’s actually a low-cost shortcut—one that works at any life stage: reading great classic books.
Reading masterful books is, in essence, befriending extraordinary people and holding conversations with them.
2. Long-Term Thinking
Human change is incremental. We often overestimate what can happen in the short term—and underestimate the massive transformation possible over time.
Take exercise or learning: only sustained, consistent effort reveals, one day, how profoundly different you’ve become from who you were a year ago.
This logic also serves as a warning: any promise of dramatic short-term results is usually just rhetoric—designed to appeal to our impulsive, impatient instincts. Don’t believe it.
3. Respecting Common Sense
Common sense means truths you recognize instantly—simple, unglamorous, widely observable principles.
With experience, you realize there are no real miracles—only these plain, enduring truths. Believe them. Execute them relentlessly. And you’ll outperform 90% of people.
Examples include:
- Diligent people outperform the lazy.
- Curious learners outpace the disengaged.
- Trustworthy people win over the unreliable.
- Patient people prevail over the restless.
- Thoughtful, grounded people surpass the loud but shallow.
Why emphasize “respecting” common sense? Because we so easily ignore it—chasing shortcuts instead. Ignoring it doesn’t just waste time; it leaves you vulnerable to deception.
Respecting common sense brings two clear benefits:
- You’re far less likely to be misled.
- You’ll consistently outperform most people—even without extraordinary talent.
4. Emotional Intelligence as Leverage
Ability is the foundation. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the lever.
Without real ability, EQ has nothing substantial to amplify.
We often overvalue EQ while underestimating raw competence. In reality, if you possess genuine skill—especially in a market as vast and dynamic as China’s—you’ll thrive. As your ability grows, your social awareness, empathy, and influence naturally follow.
5. Understanding Yourself
Self-reflection isn’t abstract—it’s the essential first step toward meaningful growth.
The most reliable path to self-understanding is daily introspection—even five minutes helps.
It’s not an exaggeration to say over 90% of people have never truly understood themselves.
6. Compounding Actions
Do things that pay dividends now and later.
Examples: building a business, creating digital products, deep learning, physical training.
These compound: each hour invested strengthens future capacity.
In contrast, scrolling short videos or playing games delivers only momentary relief—no lasting accumulation.
7. Role-Based Integrity
Integrity begins with role awareness: knowing who you are in a given context—and what responsibility that role entails.
Once you see yourself as occupying distinct roles—parent, colleague, friend, leader—you realize most roles require deliberate learning.
Consider parenting: it’s arguably the most consequential role many will ever hold—yet most perform it intuitively, without study. How many parents spend even one focused day learning evidence-based parenting practices? That single day’s investment yields returns across decades.
8. Effective Exercise
Exercise comes in two forms: physical and mental.
Physical training offers well-documented benefits—from metabolic health to mood regulation.
Mental training—like meditation—reduces internal friction and builds cognitive resilience.
Crucially: effectiveness lies not in intensity, but in consistency—until it becomes automatic.
Research shows that just five minutes of daily meditation, practiced regularly, measurably improves focus and reduces mental exhaustion.
9. Learning to Collaborate
Yes, the world contains traps and misalignments—but collaboration remains indispensable.
No one excels at everything. Recognizing your limits—and partnering with others who complement you—is how you multiply your impact. Collaboration is your most accessible leverage.
10. Lifelong Growth
Your most important priority should be your own growth—of capability, judgment, and understanding.
Here’s the core logic: your ability determines how many people you can meaningfully help—not how much you “feel” you’re trying.
So growth isn’t self-indulgent. It’s your highest responsibility—to yourself, your family, and everyone you serve. Make it your foundational principle.
Text-to-Video Model Sora
On February 15, OpenAI released Sora—a text-to-video model that, like GPT-4 last year, immediately ignited global conversation.
Sora generates high-definition video up to one minute long, based solely on text prompts. Though not yet publicly available, its demo videos—shown on the official site—are astonishing. Its significance rivals that of GPT-4’s launch.
Official site: openai.com
At the end of OpenAI’s Sora page, a line stands out:
“Sora is a foundational model for understanding and simulating the real world—and we believe this capability will be a critical milestone on the path to AGI.”
In other words, Sora accelerates the arrival of general artificial intelligence. More strikingly, it “understands” the physical world: videos it generates obey real-world physics, lighting, and spatial logic. The immersive, alternate-reality experience depicted in Ready Player One may now be closer than we thought.
This is both a challenge and an opportunity.
Watching the demos, I noticed something subtle: Sora demands strong imagination and precise, evocative language.
For instance, this prompt generated one of the standout clips:
Prompt:
Beautiful, snowy Tokyo city is bustling. The camera moves through the bustling city street, following several people enjoying the beautiful snowy weather and shopping at nearby stalls. Gorgeous sakura petals are flying through the wind along with snowflakes.
Translating that into Chinese:
Beautiful, snowy Tokyo is bustling. The camera glides through lively city streets, following several people enjoying the serene snowfall and browsing nearby vendor stalls. Exquisite cherry blossom petals swirl through the air alongside falling snowflakes.
Writing prompts at this level requires not just clarity—but literary sensitivity.
OpenAI’s Sora page includes rich technical detail. I recommend reading it thoroughly: openai.com
Seven Practical Points on Exercise
- Progress gradually. Avoid jumping in too hard, too fast.
- Move the right amount. Too little has minimal effect; too much increases injury risk. Four to seven hours per week is ideal.
- Vary your movement. Mix modalities—cardio and strength, indoor and outdoor, solo and group—to build balanced resilience.
- Prioritize sleep. Over half the physical benefit of exercise comes from deep, restorative sleep after activity.
- Use exercise to improve sleep. Moderate-to-vigorous activity significantly deepens sleep quality.
- Eat with intention. Irregular, unbalanced, or unhealthy eating cancels out exercise gains.
- Stay consistent. Short bursts yield little. Real change emerges only after months—or years—of steady practice.
Using Arguments to Understand Yourself
Arguments are inevitable. And what you perceive as flaws in others during conflict is often a reflection of your own unexamined traits.
When emotions run high, your words and impulses surface from the subconscious—not your rational self. Those sudden thoughts, especially harsh or defensive ones, reveal deeper patterns: avoidance, blame, insecurity.
In fact, the words that echo in your mind during and after an argument often point more directly to your authentic self—and your unresolved inner landscape.
But authenticity ≠ correctness. What feels true inside isn’t automatically wise or constructive.
Highly sensitive people absorb language—positive or negative—more deeply than others. Their reactions are often stronger, more immediate.
If arguments aren’t approached as joint problem-solving, they repeat. Even temporary reconciliation won’t resolve the underlying trigger.
That makes resolution a shared responsibility. If one person refuses dialogue or withdraws, it becomes a monologue—not a relationship.
Superficial or insincere communication is itself part of the problem.
Arguments aren’t dangerous—if followed by calm, honest reflection and discussion. Done well, they deepen trust and accelerate mutual growth.
Why Environment Matters So Much
People are shaped by their environments—more than most realize.
Changing your environment is the most direct lever for upward mobility.
Spending time with exceptional people changes your inputs—and reshapes your thinking.
How do you access such environments? By developing your own capabilities until you belong.
And here’s the low-barrier entry point: read timeless books. At any age, it remains one of the highest-leverage, lowest-cost ways to upgrade your mental ecosystem.
Reading great books is, quite literally, making friends with brilliant minds—and learning from them directly.
How to Read Meaningfully
Read with a dialogue mindset.
A friend—who once read 1,000 books in a year—told me he’s since shifted to deep, slow reading. His favorite method? Treating every classic as a conversation partner.
He described a friend who reads with a small glass of wine, “debating” the author page by page:
- When he agrees, he raises his glass in salute.
- When he disagrees, he argues aloud—challenging assumptions, testing logic.
This turns passive absorption into active engagement—boosting retention, insight, and joy.
Every book, then, adds another extraordinary friend to your inner circle.
Rethinking Emotional Intelligence
I used to feel deeply inadequate about my “low EQ.”
But what is EQ—really? Few can define it clearly. I certainly couldn’t.
Back then, was I really ashamed of low EQ—or of being introverted, quiet, or simply different? I’m not sure I knew.
Many misunderstand EQ. They equate it with smooth talk, social agility, or extroversion. That’s a widespread misconception—evident both in childhood and when returning home to familiar settings.
What I’ve since realized: EQ isn’t about being outgoing or polished. Its core is self-acceptance paired with sincere appreciation of others. Master that—and your emotional regulation, empathy, and relational fluency follow.
You could summarize mature EQ in four steps:
- Understand yourself.
- Regulate yourself.
- Understand others.
- Engage effectively with others.
This kind of EQ develops through lived experience—not theory. The more exceptional people you meet, the more complex situations you navigate, the more naturally it emerges.
Early on, focus on building real ability. With time, you’ll see: ability is the soil. EQ is the sunlight. Without soil, sunlight does nothing.